The world is always changing, and the stories we tell need to change with it. While the circumstances in Together Together might feel like a modern phenomenon, the emotions and connections within it are timeless.
The film begins with Anna (Patti Harrison) meeting Matt (Ed Helms) for the first time. This is not your typical Hollywood meet-cute, where they bump into each other on the street or mistakenly try to grab the same bunch of flowers at a florist. Matt is interviewing Anna to be his gestational surrogate and carry a child for him. The meeting is awkward, but their anxiousness comes across as endearing. Matt is doing this on his own, with no wife or partner. Anna is young and needs the money, but she’s not desperate. Matt tells Anna he has chosen her, and Together Together gets on its way.
Much of the humanity and the tenderness of Together Together comes from the simplicity of its plot. There are no significant roadblocks or gotcha moments that feel cruel to the audience or the characters. No unnecessary drama falsely enhances the already complicated emotions in their world. Thanks to gentle writing and stellar performances, the film is quiet and paced in a way that gives us time to get to know the characters and their motivations.
Both Matt and Anna are written as honest, forthcoming people who want to do well by one another. Matt wants a child more than anything, and he seems to want to understand Anna’s life. Anna, a little more guarded, is still open and forthcoming, and her relationship with fertility is complicated. Together Together is a far cry from Baby Mama: These are two mature, reasonable people who have been brought together by their circumstances.
The characters’ connection is at the core of Together Together. There is a push and pull between them as they bump up against boundaries and share their visions of what the future holds. Matt hopes for a deeper connection and more time with Anna and her womb; Anna tries not to get too attached to a friendship she knows is temporary. They each owe it to themselves to act in their own interests, but they’re also the only two people who understand what they’re going through.
Toeing the line between comedy and drama, Together Together joins the club of low-key films made by very funny people. Skeleton Twins, Adult Beginners, and Obvious Child all let comics show off their acting chops by highlighting vulnerability and human connection.
Helms, best known for “The Office” and The Hangover trilogy, has been dipping into sentimental parts for some time. Harrison, the newcomer, started out in stand-up comedy. Both performances are unguarded and poignant. Harrison’s acting shouts volumes in the midst of this quiet film, and shines as she reacts to Matt’s overeager but well-meaning nature.
One aspect of Together Together that does take some adjusting to is the passage of time. Going in, we expect that at least 40 weeks will pass during the film’s 90-minute running time. There is no embarrassing insemination scene or other trite milestones that we are used to seeing in pregnancy-focused movies. While this omission is mostly refreshing, it does put the onus on the audience to assemble the timeline.
Together Together never asks you to relate to surrogacy or what decisions you would make if you were in this situation. It’s a view into humanity and friendship that results from the connection of two uncommon lives.