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Pandemic pivot: How local nonprofits have adjusted to strange times

“When the pandemic set in, it rendered our model impossible,” says Jayson Whitehead, executive director of PACEM, a local nonprofit that partners with area houses of worship to offer overnight shelter and meals for the homeless during the winter. Close contact in church buildings became unsafe. So did the buffet dinners served by congregation volunteers. “That interaction was a big part of our service,” Whitehead says. “It’s a big deal [for our clients], to be greeted and served by a smiling face.”

Big shake-ups have been the story for nonprofits all over town. And every organization serves a different community with unique needs, meaning each one has been forced to adapt in its own way.

For PACEM, that meant using the city’s Key Recreation Center as a temporary men’s shelter. Then, federal COVID support enabled the organization to tap local hotels to shelter women and the medically vulnerable, overseen by the Thomas Jefferson Area Coalition for the Homeless. Still, Whitehead notes, “the pandemic cut our capacity to offer shelter in half.” As restrictions eased, PACEM has resumed working with eight of its former 30 church partners, incorporating professional cleaning and prepackaged meals instead of buffet dinners. While the organization’s annual fundraising event had to be canceled, Whitehead has seen increased support from long-standing donors and faith-based partners. “We live in a pretty amazing community,” he says.

Elsewhere, the Sexual Assault Resource Agency quickly pivoted to offer teletherapy for its clients, as well as redesigning its sexual violence prevention programs for schools to use online, says interim executive director Renee Branson. Normally, SARA’s on-call emergency room advocates would support survivors in person, but since that’s not possible now, they work remotely and in close coordination with ER nurses to connect survivors with support. Branson knows many clients “may have less reliable [internet] access, so we also offer support by phone or drop off materials at their homes.” With both its annual fundraisers—Walk A Mile for SARA in April and its November Community Breakfast awards banquet—canceled, SARA launched an online auction during Giving Tuesday on December 1.

Renee Branson, interim executive director of the Sexual Assault Resource Agency, says the center has taken a number of steps to adapt to life with the virus. PC: Zack Wajsgras

Pre-COVID, the Charlottesville staff of Project ID visited the Albemarle-Charlottesville Regional Jail weekly to help inmates due for release get the identification (birth certificate, driver’s license, or DMV-issued ID) needed to apply for housing, social services, and jobs. “We’d see four to 12 people a week, and a DMV representative came in once a month,” says co-chapter lead DeAun Sanders. “Now we have to do all that by phone, even walking them through online applications. But many of them don’t have computers, or smartphones.” The group used to have office hours at the Jefferson School and public libraries, which made assistance and online access available for the city’s underserved and homeless, but that’s been curtailed by pandemic restrictions. Luckily, though, since Project ID also facilitates voter registration as part of national organization Spread the Vote, money hasn’t been an issue in this hyperactive election year.

Many Sentara women’s health and breast cancer programs receive funding from the Martha Jefferson Hospital Foundation’s Women’s Committee, best known for running Martha’s Market. But a three-day event with 40 vendors and hundreds of shoppers was impossible this year, so the committee went virtual—with an added twist of incorporating local businesses. “We didn’t expect to make as much money,” notes chair Amy Nolasco, “but we wanted to continue the event and support our health community.” The committee’s squash tournament fundraiser had to be scrapped, but the annual In the Pink tennis tournament went ahead—with COVID adaptations. “Usually we ask local small businesses to provide the prizes, as a promotion,” says Nolasco, “but we knew they couldn’t this year, so we bought their gift cards as prizes instead.”

Like other educational organizations, Literacy Volunteers of Charlottesville/Albemarle had to take its tutoring activities and citizenship classes online. Executive Director Ellen Osborne says there’s been some upside: tutor training—formerly a full day and in person—is now several shorter online sessions, making it easier for some people to participate. (They’ve even had a few trainees from outside Virginia—which works, since tutors and students now meet virtually.) And, since online sessions mean no commute and no need for a sitter, LVCA’s citizenship classes are booming. Literary Volunteers had to cancel this year’s Wordplay, its big game-show fundraising event, which usually nets about $20,000. “It’s hard to make up that kind of money,” says Osborne, “but all our sponsors are carrying over their fees until next time.”

The Front Porch, a nonprofit community music school, has gone all virtual until fall 2021. “We’ve lost many of our children—they are spending so much time online now,” says Executive Director Emily Morrison, “but we have seen a lot more adults, and a lot more private students over group lessons—one of our teachers has students from New York, Illinois, Florida, even Alaska.” Building community is part of The Front Porch’s mission, “and the pandemic has cramped that,” says Morrison; on the other hand, its Save the Music livestreamed performances have supported local musicians and generated donations for area nonprofits. Its spring block party and fall square dance are on hold, but Morrison says, “We’ve had a banner fundraising year, largely on gifts from $10 to $100—in this scary and divisive time, people have really stepped up to support our local nonprofits.”

Price Thomas, director of marketing for United Way of Greater Charlottesville, agrees: “People see the effects on their neighbors, and have been very generous, especially toward pandemic effects and recovery,” he says. United Way has been able to hold many of its donor and community events online, but while virtual accommodates more people, Thomas notes, it lacks that all-important personal contact. “Our focus is staying connected with people and with our community.”

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Five years later: What has (or hasn’t) changed at UVA since Rolling Stone?

On November 19, 2014, Rolling Stone magazine dropped a bombshell called “A Rape on Campus: A Brutal Assault and Struggle for Justice at UVA.” Written by Sabrina Rubin Erdely, the article alleged that a UVA student named Jackie was gang raped at a party by members of the Phi Kappa Psi fraternity in 2012, and that the university failed to respond adequately when a traumatized Jackie reported the incident months later. 

The story would ultimately prove to be false, a journalistic failure of colossal proportions. But it shone a spotlight on a very real problem. In the days immediately following its publication, a flood of UVA students and alumni shared their own stories of campus sexual assault in the article’s comment section, including experiences of reporting assaults to the university only to have their attackers go unpunished. Many claimed that UVA had a culture of sexual assault, especially at fraternity parties. On Grounds, thousands of students protested against “a culture that puts female students at risk,” as the group Take Back the Night put it. Phi Kappa Psi’s fraternity house was vandalized, and UVA officials temporarily suspended the university’s Greek system. 

Under scrutiny, Jackie’s story fell apart, and after a four-month investigation Charlottesville police failed to find any evidence corroborating her claims. Following an independent review by the Columbia Graduate School of Journalism, the article was retracted in April. But though the story was false, it prompted a public reckoning with how the university handles sexual violence. At the time, UVA was already under federal Title IX review by the Office of Civil Rights —a review that ultimately found that the university’s sexual assault and misconduct policies were in violation of federal law.

In the aftermath, the university undertook a wave of reforms, including revamping its policies and investing in additional staff, training, and resources around sexual assault. New student groups sprang up to provide support for survivors and speak out against sexual violence. But almost five years later, in October 2019, the university’s annual safety report revealed that 28 rapes were reported in 2018, with 20 occurring in student housing, the highest number since 2014. There were also 16 reports of dating violence, 14 reports of domestic violence, 43 reports of stalking, and 16 reports of fondling—all much higher than previous years.

Has anything really changed?

Talking about it

Alex Smith-Scales applied to UVA right after the Rolling Stone scandal. Now a 2019 graduate, she believes the climate surrounding sexual assault on Grounds went through an “interesting transformation process” during her four years there.

“I remember coming in and seeing the Green Dot presentation, and hearing about all the sexual assault prevention during our orientation week when we first got to Grounds,” she says. “It made me know [the university was] taking it seriously.”

Smith-Scales was a part of the first graduating class to undergo comprehensive training on sexual assault. Since 2015, all incoming first-year and transfer students have been required to complete online Title IX and alcohol education modules (and all students must take a refresher course every two years), as well as Green Dot (now called Hoos Got Your Back), a bystander intervention program. Beginning in 2016, the university also began requiring sexual misconduct training for graduate students and student employees, and the NCAA requires that all athletic department staff and student athletes receive annual training.

During her first days at UVA, Smith-Scales was also happy to learn about the many student groups against sexual assault, and knew she wanted to get involved. In her second year, she joined Take Back The Night, and later became co-chair. During her fourth year, she served on the Sexual Violence Prevention Coalition, the umbrella group that helps coordinate advocacy and peer education efforts on Grounds.

UVA officials have pointed to these increased outreach and education efforts, both on the part of administration and students, as the reason behind the rise in sexual assaults reported to the University Police Department, university officials, and other law enforcement.

In addition to the uptick in reported assaults in the university’s safety report, the 2019 Association of American Universities Campus Climate Survey, which gathers data on student experiences and perceptions around sexual assault and misconduct, also reported an increase in sexual assaults at UVA, specifically among men, compared to the 2015 survey

But a rise in reports doesn’t mean a rise in incidents—and in fact, may be a sign that the stigma surrounding sexual assault is lifting. 

“What we find with most, if not all, interpersonal crimes, [is that] when you draw attention to it, and you tell people ‘this is not okay,’ then people who have experienced it start to feel more comfortable coming forward,” says Abby Palko, director of the Maxine Platzer Lynn Women’s Center at UVA. 

According to Sheri Owen, community outreach director at the Sexual Assault Resource Agency, the #MeToo movement could be another reason more students are reporting sexual assaults.

“In the last two and a half years, there’s just really been an explosion of support around survivors. Survivors are feeling like they are being heard and that people are listening to them,” she says. 

Abby Palko has served as director of the Maxine Platzer Lynn Women’s Center at UVA for three and a half years. PC: Courtesy of UVA

Palko believes the movement has had a rather “complicated impact,” as there have been some people not held responsible for their crimes, “reinforcing an old message of, ‘No one’s going to believe you.’”

However, she agrees that it has brought the conversation of sexual assault to the national forefront, encouraging more survivors to come forward.

“It has people who before weren’t talking about it, talking about it, and that can help make it feel safer for survivors to share their experiences,” she says. “There have been some high-profile examples of people being held accountable afterwards; that also makes it feel safer.”

A new approach 

Perhaps the biggest change is the way the university has remade its Title IX process. 

Title IX is the federal law prohibiting gender discrimination; in the 1990s, the Supreme Court ruled that it can be used to require schools to respond appropriately to reports of sexual harassment and sexual violence against students.

In 2011, the Department of Education issued what is now known as the “Dear Colleague” letter, declaring that colleges and universities receiving federal funding had responsibilities under Title IX to ensure the safety of all students from sexual assault, particularly female students. 

Soon afterward, the Office of Civil Rights opened what would become a years-long compliance review of UVA’s Title IX policies, along with those of dozens of other colleges.

Meanwhile, beginning in 2014, the university performed its own comprehensive evaluation of its existing Title IX policies and practices.

In spring 2015, it developed a new interim policy for handling sexual violence complaints and made it available for public comment. After receiving more than 600 comments from members of the UVA community, the university revised and implemented the interim policy, effective July 1, 2015, with approval from OCR that it fully complied with Title IX.

The OCR’s investigation finally came to an end in September 2015, finding that the university’s previous sexual assault and sexual misconduct policies “did not provide for the prompt and equitable resolution of student and employee complaints,” and were in violation of Title IX. It determined that “a basis for a hostile environment existed for affected students” and that “the university failed to eliminate a hostile environment and take steps to prevent its recurrence,” specifically from 2008 to 2014. The investigation also concluded that, from 2008 to 2012, the Title IX coordinator did not adequately oversee and coordinate all Title IX complaints.

After an intense set of negotiations, UVA agreed, among other things, to continue to follow its new Title IX policies, provide training to students and employees, improve outreach to students, and develop a system for tracking reports and investigations of sexual misconduct. It also committed to reviewing reports from 2011-2014 to determine whether they were appropriately addressed, and allowed the OCR to review and monitor its response to reports during the 2015-16 academic year.

To better address Title IX reports, in 2015 the university hired a full-time Title IX coordinator, “who participates in the initial evaluation [of reports] and now takes the lead regarding any informal or formal resolutions of Title IX reports,” says university spokesman Brian Coy. 

The same year, the university also hired an associate vice president to lead the Equal Opportunity and Civil Rights office. Since then, EOCR has grown to have seven full-time Title IX staff, including four full-time investigators. 

Back in 2014, then-associate dean Nicole Eramo was one of three deputy Title IX coordinators, and as head of the Sexual Misconduct Board she was heavily featured in the Rolling Stone piece, which presented her as being more concerned about the university’s reputation than Jackie’s alleged assault. (Eramo sued the magazine for defamation, and won.) Reflecting back on her experience in a recent Facebook post, Eramo wrote: “The job as it was structured was impossible—a perspective that I believe is well supported by the fact that 7 full-time staff members and a host of others do now what was, on paper, only 50% of my job at the time.”

More money, more resources

In addition to beefing up its staff and training, UVA has given increased funding and support to organizations that assist sexual assault survivors on Grounds. 

Over the past five years, Counseling & Psychological Services has nearly doubled its staff, which includes licensed social workers, counselors, psychologists, nurse practitioners, and psychiatrists. 

“CAPS staff are trained in a variety of interventions, including evidence-based trauma therapies, and are a confidential resource for students seeking support following sexual assault and other forms of interpersonal violence,” says Coy. 

The Women’s Center has also received more funding and support from the university. Since 2015, it has created four new counseling positions, including two trauma counselors, a case manager, and a resident in counseling with special expertise and experience in the role of cultural, racial, gender, and sexual identity in mental health. 

The center’s counselors provide trauma-informed treatment for students of all genders (not just women), while its confidential advocate “works with students who are going through the Title IX process, if they need that type of support,” says Palko, helping them with paperwork, connecting them with resources, and accompanying them to hearings. 

All of the center’s counselors (with only a few exceptions) are confidential employees, meaning they are not required to share information about students or their experiences with the university’s Title IX office. 

Women’s Center interns help run educational events like the survivor support network trainings, which explain the neurobiology of trauma and “help people understand what someone who has been assaulted is going through and how they can provide support to them,” says Palko.

Outside of the university, Charlottesville’s Sexual Assault Resource Agency also offers support. 

Whenever a student reports a sexual assault at UVA’s Student Health center, staff calls an advocate from SARA, who provides emotional support during the physical evidence recovery kit exam, and can assist victims with follow-up medical and counseling appointments and any subsequent criminal process. Victims who choose to have that exam do not have to make a report to the police, the university, or any other agency, and evidence will not be submitted without their written consent. 

“Our advocacy coordinator also works very closely with Title IX and sits with students during any type of Title IX interviews,” says Owen. “And our outreach team regularly goes and talks with fraternities and sororities…[and] trains all of the Madison House helpline volunteers.”

The UVA Clothesline Project and the Red Flag Campaign invite survivors of sexual violence to share their stories anonymously, and display their messages on Grounds. PC: Take Back The Night and The Women’s Center at UVA

A change in (rape) culture?

But have all of these changes made an actual impact on what students have called UVA’s “rape culture?” What is the atmosphere surrounding sexual assault on Grounds like today? 

From the conversations she has had post-graduation with UVA’s Program Coordinator for Prevention Rachel Kiliany, Smith-Scales believes that “things are on the right track.” Just this year, One Less, a female and gender nonconforming sexual assault peer education group, and One in Four, an all-male identified group, came together to create CORE (Culture of Respected Educators), a gender-inclusive sexual violence advocacy group, which Smith-Scales thinks is “a huge step in the right direction.”

“It’s really helpful to make it more of an accessible space to people who don’t fit into the gender binary, or who maybe just don’t want to be in a single gender space,” she says.

However, during her time with Take Back The Night, she struggled to diversify the conversation around sexual assault and to reach marginalized communities with the group’s events.

“There is definitely a culture and a stereotype of it just being for people who are members of white traditional Greek life,” she says. 

Smith-Scales also saw an overall decrease in participation in sexual assault advocacy. By the time she became TBTN co-chair, “the people that were getting involved were people that came having a desire to fight sexual assault,” not people with a newfound interest in the cause.

“Outreach just became really difficult. I think one of the reasons was because the environment and the culture got oversaturated with causes to care about. I feel like the first one was President Trump being elected to office…and then the second one being August 11th and 12th,” she says. “That really changed…where people put their justice efforts at UVA.”

During the rise of the #MeToo movement, Smith-Scales believes there was an increase in attention on sexual assault on Grounds. However, she does not think it gained much momentum.

“Rolling Stone was so easy to unify on because it was directly affecting our community,” she says. “With #MeToo the conversations became a little bit more nuanced. They weren’t just about college students.”

She ultimately feels “like the university on their end, and also the university students…really just shifted their focus onto different things,” she says. “It was really disheartening to see that the passion wasn’t as present as when the Rolling Stone situation came about.”

In the 2019 campus climate survey, 38 percent of female respondents and 20 percent of male respondents said sexual assault and misconduct was “very” or “extremely” problematic­—a significant percentage, but lower than in 2015, when those numbers were 49 percent for women and 28 percent for men.   

Angela (not her real name), a fourth-year student, is one who believes that the culture surrounding sexual assault is “still a really big problem” at UVA.

“A lot of cases are still not dealt with properly,” she says. “It’s hard for survivors to come out and actually talk about things because…of the confidential/non-confidential employee [policy],” which requires all responsible employees (including professors and resident advisors) to report prohibited conduct to the university’s Title IX coordinator.

“As a survivor, I have friends who are RAs, and I can’t even talk to them about my experience because then they’d have to report it,” she says. “That’s just kind of messed up.”

And like Smith-Scales, she feels that “the Grounds-wide conversation has kind of dwindled since Rolling Stone.”

“When it’s talked about, it’s among groups that are actively trying to bring up the issue,” says another fourth-year student. “It’s not really with the general population.”

A variety of student groups regularly host events and campaigns against sexual assault at UVA, including Take Back The Night and the Red Flag Campaign. PC: The Women’s Center at UVA

Room for improvement

Ultimately, while the university has made a lot of positive changes, students say there is still more work to be done.

Smith-Scales wishes that the university would put more momentum behind the conversations surrounding sexual assault, as well as hire more staff to assist Kiliany.

Kiliany “is incredible at her job, but she is the only prevention coordinator when other universities have dedicated teams to causes like this,” says Smith-Scales. 

Others hope the university will improve its initiatives and resources for sexual assault, becoming more proactive than reactive.

“The university needs to do more than just run those programs when you’re a first-year, and the review you get when you’re a third-year,” says Angela. It also pushes “a lot of students into CAPS,” when “CAPS doesn’t have the capacity to serve all students.”

Though fraternities are not the only perpetrators of sexual assault, Rebecca (not her real name) believes the university’s frat culture is still a “big contributer” to the problem, and that administration needs to do a better job of reprimanding Greek organizations. 

“There’s a lot of things that go on within those organizations that remain unchecked,” she says. “At the end of the day, there’s a lot of big donors to the school that may be former members of a fraternity or a sorority. The university knows if they hand down a really harsh punishment to these groups, they’re not going to receive funding.”

“Check a basement of any frat on Friday or Saturday night, and you’ll see some questionable stuff,” she adds. 

And, as students like Angela have pointed out, the university’s mandatory reporting policy needs improvement, says SARA’s Owens. She says students can be afraid to report or talk about sexual assault because of uncertainty over who is a mandatory reporter and who isn’t. “I think all intentions were good, but in some instances…[it’s] turned out to not be as good as we had hoped.”

Meanwhile, federal guidance on Title IX policies may be changing under Secretary of Education Betsy DeVos. Pulling back from the Obama administration’s efforts to increase protections for victims, the proposed guidelines would add new requirements designed to protect the rights of students accused of sexual assault, including the ability to cross-examine accusers. They would also narrow the definition of sexual harassment and restrict administrators to investigating only certain incidents, as well as allow universities to set their own standards of evidence for finding an accused student guilty of assault.

In 2016, UVA came under a federal Title IX investigation that was sparked by an individual complaint from a former male student who claimed that he was discriminated against in the investigation process based on his gender and disability, according to a UVA spokesperson at the time. Coy declined to comment on the specifics of that case or another investigation opened in February 2018, both of which are still active. 

Once the new regulations are made official, UVA will determine if any changes to its Title IX policy and procedures are necessary. 

Smith-Scales believes the changes could make universities less accountable, putting an increased burden back on students to demand justice for victims. 

“It also sends a message from our government that they don’t care and that the sexual assault and harassment isn’t something we will prioritize,” she says. “That message in itself will lead to losses.”

Updated 12/5 to correct the number of staff positions added to the Women’s Center at UVA

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#MeToo effect: Movement brings local victims forward

Since 2017, when the #MeToo movement galvanized women across the country to speak out about sexual abuse and assault, local support agencies have seen a dramatic increase in requests for help.

Calls to the Sexual Assault Resource Agency to accompany victims to the emergency room increased by 42 percent from fiscal year 2017 to 2018, and the agency saw an 18 percent increase in the number of sexual violence survivors it served. But Rebecca Weybright, SARA’s executive director, sees #MeToo having the greatest impact on those victimized in the past: “We have people coming in saying, ‘This happened to me years ago, and because of what’s in the news, I realized it is still an issue for me.’”

Weybright and others in the field say media coverage of #MeToo—and more recent events, from the Kavanaugh hearings to the R. Kelly docuseries—can stir up traumatic reactions in survivors. But it can also help in healing. “Seeing people talking publicly about their experiences has made it safer and more accepted to talk about what happened,” says Elizabeth Irvin, executive director of the Women’s Initiative. And it counteracts the shaming and devaluation of victims that advocates say is part of the power dynamic of sexual violence. The Women’s Initiative, which provides mental health services for women (many of whom are survivors of sexual trauma) regardless of ability to pay, saw a 50 percent increase in clients at its free walk-in clinic in 2018.

Over at UVA, Abby Palko, director of the Maxine Platzer Lynn Women’s Center, says the center has seen “a steady, perhaps growing need for support” from students who have experienced sexual violence; staffing grew from two to four full-time counselors in 2016, and they’ve just added another two. Palko, who also teaches courses that explore women’s and gender issues, says over the last decade she’s seen “a growing internalized knowledge about issues of consent and sexual violence” in her students. Events like the debunked Rolling Stone article “A Rape on Campus,” the abduction and murder of Hannah Graham, and the killing of student Yeardley Love by her boyfriend “meant we were talking more about these issues at UVA when the #MeToo movement took off.”

So far, the rise in awareness and requests for support hasn’t translated into a significant increase in reporting these crimes to the police. Both the Charlottesville and Albemarle County police departments offer victim/witness assistance programs, but filing a police report is voluntary and always the individual’s choice. (Under Virginia law, however, teachers, law enforcement, medical personnel, and counselors or social workers are required to report sexual violence if the victim is a minor, or if there is an immediate threat to the victim or the public.) Worth noting: in Virginia, there is no statute of limitations on felony sexual assault.

Charlottesville Deputy Commonwealth’s Attorney Areshini Pather, who works on many sexual assault cases, says #MeToo has torn open our society’s past reluctance to talk about sexual violence. “Perpetrators would tell victims, ‘If you tell anyone about this, no one will believe you.’  But now people are talking about sexual violence, which enables survivors to see that what happened to them has happened to others, and won’t be tolerated. We’re bringing this out into the light.”

How to help victims of sexual violence

Those who counsel sexual assault victims and survivors say the most critical factor in healing is the response of the first person they turn to—often a friend or family member. If you are that person, the most important thing you can do is to believe them, and remind them they are not to blame for what happened.

From there, take your cues from them on how to help:

  • Listen non-judgmentally. Don’t try to put a label on their experience. Let them know that all of their reactions are understandable and ‘normal.’
  • Seek permission before holding or touching them.
  • Ask them what they would like you to do.
  • Encourage them to seek medical help, and offer to accompany them.
  • Be available and present, but don’t pressure them to talk. Understand that they may be distant temporarily.
  • Give them time to decide how they want to proceed, legally or otherwise. It’s important to help survivors regain a sense of control.
  • If you are a sexual partner, give them time to decide when they are ready for sexual contact.
  • Suggest getting help from a sexual assault crisis center. Encourage, but do not push them to seek support.
  • Let them know you will be available throughout the process of recovery. Give them time to heal.
  • Recognize and address your own reactions, which may include: anger (sometimes towards the victim as well as the perpetrator), sleep disturbances, guilt or shame, fearfulness, denial, frustration, depression, or a combination of these. Seek support for yourself so you can continue to help them.

Based on information from the Sexual Assault Resource Agency.

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Dinner is served: Chef brings women together to help the homeless

Duner’s executive chef Laura Fonner has spearheaded a drive to provide chef-driven, home-cooked suppers for PACEM—an organization that provides cold-weather shelter for the homeless—each Tuesday throughout the winter months. She was inspired to take action after helping to serve at a PACEM dinner late last winter.

“I met a man who had worked in restaurants his whole life but had had a stroke and lost all ability to use his hands,” she says. “This struck me to the core—this could be me. I vowed in that moment that this is something I wanted to get involved in.”

Fonner credits her “secret weapon”—a group of some 80 women in an exercise boot camp she runs in Crozet—with helping launch the program, enabling her to run two shelter dinners (one for men, one for women) in two locations (church members feed PACEM guests on the other nights of the week). Members of Charlottesville Women in Food are also helping with cooking and donations, and Fonner has received food from Autumn Olive Farms, Gryffon’s Aerie, and Sam Rust, as well as financial contributions from The Pie Chest, Tin Whistle Irish Pub, Nona’s Italian Cucina, and Vivace.

With recent donations, the group has also assembled baskets of self-care items and a grab bag of holiday cookies for those staying at PACEM, which moves among various places of worship each week.

Fonner is thrilled to see her dreams so readily turned into reality. “I’m blessed to be surrounded by so many strong and caring women,” she says.

To donate or volunteer, contact Fonner at lfonner23@gmail.com.

Tailgating for change

Trish Clinton—who trained at Tennessee’s famed Blackberry Farm luxury hotel and resort and is now executive chef for Zeta Psi fraternity at UVA—has cooked up a Dave Matthews Band tailgate to benefit Charlottesville’s Sexual Assault Resource Agency. The tailgate will be held at Zeta Psi from 2-4pm on Friday, December 14, before the band’s concert at the John Paul Jones Arena.

Clinton, a self-proclaimed “die-hard” DMB fan, conjured up the plan after becoming frustrated watching the Kavanaugh hearings last fall.

“I found myself angry—you could hear in [Dr. Ford’s] voice what anyone that has experienced sexual assault has felt,” she says. “I needed to do something to make those people feel more supported and put my anger to action. I thought ‘why not combine my loves—food and DMB—to give back?’”

Clinton is partnering with Tailgate Caravan, which has held other philanthropic tailgates at DMB shows, and has tapped into the band’s broad fan base to enlist attendees, with over 100 signed up already (she’s capping it at 200). The suggested minimum donation of $35 per person will cover a full buffet spread, open bar with DMB-themed cocktails and draft beer, and raffle prizes. While fellow members of Charlottesville Women in Food have donated beer and services, Clinton is seeking additional help and donations—large or small—of cash and raffle prizes. For more information, email trishtye@hotmail.com.